5 Things to Remember About Dating Guys - Broken Heart Help

Posted on August 27, 2010
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No one likes to do it but everyone does. Whether you find it terrible and frustrating, or just trying to heal your broken heart, or you actually enjoy it, you know that if you are ever going to find the one person who can stop your dating life forever, you have to do it. But it’s something you are going to have to do if you want to find Mr. Perfect. So, here is some good advice for you.

Dating guys successfully can be broken down into five very important points. They are:

1. Men are not women. While girls like to shop at the mall trying on tons of clothes, guys do not like to hang at the mall. It’s difficult to even drag them there if they need something. Save the mall time for your girlfriends, it’s a great way to catch up with them.

2. Men are not women. They do not want to be bored with meaningless talk about your feelings or things that are wrong with your relationship every minute of the day. You need to pick a time to talk and keep it short, otherwise they will immediately close their ears to you. Take note to never talk about your relationship in front of yours or his friends, this will most likely lead to an embarrassing argument. And when discussing your relationship with him, never, never, ever compared your ex to him.

3. Men are not women. They do not like to see you show up at their door in your ratty old jeans with no make up on. Trust me on this one. It will be ok for this thing to happen - much, much later though, like after the kids are teenagers. For now, to keep your man interested - please girls, put something nice on like a beautiful shirt and a cute skirt or jeans and continue to take care of yourself.

4. Men are not women. Do not take out your cell and begin texting your friends right in front of him, guys do not like that. There is nothing wrong with keeping in touch with your friends, but your man needs to feel like he is number one. He deserves you to give him your undivided attention. Texting or talking on your cell while you are on a date is just plain rude. Don’t make your date think that he is not worth your full attention.

5. Men are not women. It is not interesting or insanely entertaining to them, to gossip and giggle about others. According to the male half of the population, who can come up with the most hurtful rumor is nothing to be proud of. It is also not cool to begin gossiping about one of his friends with a rumor that may or may not be true. Guys do not talk about there friends the way girls do. This is something to talk about with the girls over coffee or a drinks.

Remembering the five most important things to remember about dating guys will take you farther than anything else when it comes to having a great time on your dates. Just following these points will also get you many more dates with the same man. “Being Yourself” should be enough is what most people giving dating advice will say.

But trust me, while that is not terrible advice if being yourself includes any of the forbidden behavior in the five most important things to remember when dating guys list, don’t be yourself. Be better. Remember these five most important things about dating guys and you will be able to heal your broken heart and have a better dating life.

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