Dating Inner Game – What Does Your Confidence Level Say To Girls?

Posted on August 20, 2009
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I get a lot of questions from my readers on how to create attraction with a woman. It is one of the most common dating advice questions, and one that is easiest – as well as hardest – to answer. Here’s why….

Creating attraction with a woman is a simple thing, actually, and can really be tied to a set of actions or a mindset that a man has. However – getting it RIGHT is another thing. You see – what turns women on and creates – and maintains – attraction for them is alpha male characteristics. And I am sure that you have heard that term before, and you may groan and think, “Not more of this stuff!” – but let me ask you something – is what you are doing….WORKING? Probably not if you are looking for dating tips on attraction.

Ok, so let’s go through a few simple steps to get you on your way to attracting high quality women. First of all, to be an alpha male, you have GOT to have confidence. Sounds simple, right? Or maybe, it sounds really, really out of reach for you. Either way – this is what you need to do.

Fake it till you make it.


If you do not have confidence, then you need to adjust your body language until it comes naturally to you. If you can do that, you will grow accustomed to accepting what you project, and you will BECOME that confident, masculine man that attracts women.

So – here goes. Practice this in a mirror. You stand straight. You keep your chin up and your gaze strong. When you meet a woman’s stare – you look back at her – do not let your gaze slip away like some coquettish school-girl. You are a man. Look at her and look into her. Nod your head, smile a little half smile like with one side of your mouth, sort of like you know something she does not know. And then turn around, and ignore her for a while.

Now, you keep your back straight, but keep your hands and arms, and your step, loose and liquid. Like you have a rock solid core but you are WITHOUT care, without nervousness and agitation. You are unflappable, and whatever happens around you – you can handle – calmly, coolly and without losing your self-control. You have confidence.

These are the building blocks of the alpha personality that is going to attract women. Notice though, that I say nothing about lines, plays, schemes, magic cologne or anything like that. It’s not about that. It’s about who YOU are and what you project. If you project confidence and masculinity – women WILL notice. Women WILL be attracted to that.

I know it sounds far fetched right now – but that is because your confidence is probably in the toilet. So give it a shot, and educate yourself MORE about what it means to be an alpha male. Learn to walk the walk and talk the talk, and the women will come.

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