Is It Possible to Get Ex Back and Heal My Broken Heart?

Posted on September 2, 2010
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Did your boyfriend just end your relationship and you need to mend your broken heart? You are currently experiencing some difficult times. You are probably hurting and want to know what caused your boyfriend to break up.

First of all, while you can use this time to look at yourself and where you are in your life, don’t do too much introspection. The reason why your boyfriend broke up with you is because he has his own issues to deal with. That being said, the old “it’s not you, it’s me” saying comes into play.

You can go about trying to get your ex back. If you are going to take this direction, you should to know the following issues:

When your boyfriend breaks up with you and you have a gut feeling that the relationship is finished, you need to begin to move on.

Sit down and write a long letter in which you pour your heart out to your ex boyfriend, should be the first thing you do after the break up. All the good times and bad should be included. You can call him a jerk and any other nasty name you want to. However, do not mail the letter! Another wonderful option is to take out a candle and burn it. This is one of the best ways to get closure after a boyfriend breaks up with you.

Next, you need to exchange property. That t-shirt you love to sleep in, you need to give it back to him. That econ book you lent him, you will need to get it back. Trivial items like toothbrushes need to thrown away instead of exchanging them. Don’t have anything around that reminds you of him. If you have gifts that he gave you, box them up for the time being. A joint chequing account or any debts owed to the other need to be sorted out and resolved as soon as possible.

Upon completion of the property exchange you both need to agree to no communication for 30 days. You need some space and distance after a boyfriend breaks up with you and this will be especially hard if you are used to seeing each other on a daily basis.

When a boyfriend breaks up with you, it hurts a lot. But it isn’t the end of your life. You are now free to meet your true soul mate, when you look at the positive side of things.

A break up with your boyfriend shouldn’t make you jump to the conclusion that all of the doors are firmly shut. If you think you have a shot at winning him back and that’s something you want, you should by all means take the opportunity to do so.

True love can even endure a break up by a boyfriend and heal my broken heart.

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